Specialized Areas

Relationships & Communication

• Relationship issues

• Communication skills

• Choosing healthy partners

• Dating, breakups, and marriage support

• Healthy vs. unhealthy relationship patterns

• Boundary‑setting and people‑pleasing

• Conflict resolution

• Abandonment Issues

• People‑pleasing patterns

• Emotional intimacy, belonging, and connection

• Expressing Needs

• Anger, rage, resentment, passive aggressive, controlling, manipulating, sadness, fear, envy and jealousy

• Difficult Parents - Estrangement

Attachment & Relational Patterns

• Attachment styles (anxious, avoidant, fearful‑avoidant, secure)

• Childhood emotional neglect

• Attachment wounds and trauma adaptations

• Developing secure attachment

• Healing attachment wounds

• Trauma‑based relational adaptations

Trauma & CPTSD

• Trauma and complex trauma (C-PTSD)

• PTSD

• Emotional regulation and nervous‑system support

• Religious Trauma

Neurodivergence

• ADHD challenges

• Executive functioning

• Navigating relationships as a neurodivergent person

• Emotional dysregulation

Life Transitions

• Major life changes

• Grief and loss

• Adjusting to new roles or stages of life

LGBTQ+ Affirming Support

• Identity exploration

• Relationship and family dynamics

Therapeutic Approaches

• DBT

• CBT

• Mindfulness

• Attachment‑informed and trauma‑informed care

• Integrative, client‑centered approach

Anxiety & Stress

• Generalized anxiety

• Social anxiety

• Stress and overwhelm

• Perfectionism

• Difficulty relaxing or feeling at ease

• Stress, overwhelm, and perfectionism

• Hypervigilance and shutdown responses

• Shame, guilt, and self‑blame

Self‑Worth & Identity

• Low self‑esteem

• Confidence building

• Identity and personal growth

• Feeling “not enough” or “too much”

• Clarity through life chaos

Counselling Services Continued

There is not a one size fit’s all therapy. I have created examples of different narratives below. Take a look below to explore which of these areas might resonate with you while knowing there are countless other narratives that need individuality.

Trauma Informed Counselling

Life leaves marks—some loud, some quiet, some that only show up when you’re alone with your thoughts. Trauma‑informed counselling offers a safe, grounded space to understand those patterns, reconnect with yourself, and move forward with clarity.

At Freed and On Fire Counselling, sessions are designed to help you feel emotionally safe, understood, and supported. You don’t have to explain or justify your reactions. You don’t have to “be strong.” You get to arrive exactly as you are.

What this service supports

• emotional overwhelm

• shutdown, freeze, or dissociation

• chronic self‑doubt

• difficulty trusting yourself or others

• patterns rooted in childhood experiences

• feeling “too much” or “not enough”

• navigating life transitions

What you can expect

• a calm, non‑judgmental space

• a counsellor who listens deeply gentle exploration at your pace

• trauma‑informed understanding of your nervous system

• support that honours your lived experience

Who this is for: Adults seeking emotional clarity, safety, and a grounded path forward—whether you’re healing from past trauma or navigating present‑day challenges.

Counselling for Anxiety & Emotional Overwhelm

Anxiety can feel like a constant hum in the background—or a tidal wave that hits without warning. Emotional overwhelm can make even simple decisions feel impossible. You’re not alone, and you’re not “too much.”

This service offers a steady, compassionate space to understand what’s happening inside you and learn how to feel safe again.

This service is for you if you experience

• overthinking or spiraling thoughts

• emotional shutdown

• difficulty relaxing or sleeping

• feeling constantly “on edge”

• people‑pleasing driven by fear

• guilt for needing rest or boundaries

What we focus on

• understanding your anxiety through a trauma‑informed lens

  • building internal safety

• learning to regulate your nervous system

• reconnecting with your voice and needs

• reducing overwhelm without forcing yourself to “push through”

Counselling for Relationship & Attachment Trauma

Relationship patterns don’t come out of nowhere—they’re shaped by what you learned about love, safety, and connection long before adulthood.

This service helps you understand why you react the way you do, why certain relationships feel familiar or draining, and how to build healthier, more grounded connections.

Common reasons people seek this service

• attracting emotionally unavailable partners

• feeling responsible for others’ emotions

  • difficulty setting boundaries

• fear of abandonment or rejection

• shutting down during conflict

• staying in relationships that hurt

What we explore together

• attachment patterns

• emotional safety in relationships

• your nervous system’s responses

• how childhood experiences shape adult dynamics

• how to build relationships that feel steady and mutual

Counselling Adults with Childhood Emotional Trauma

Childhood emotional trauma doesn’t always look like chaos. Sometimes it looks like silence, inconsistency, emotional neglect, or being the “strong one” long before you were ready.

This service helps you understand how those early experiences shaped your identity, your coping patterns, and your relationships—and how to begin healing with compassion.

This service supports adults who experienced

• emotional neglect

• inconsistent caregiving

  • parentification (growing up too fast)

• criticism or perfectionism

• feeling unseen or unheard

• chaotic or unpredictable environments

What healing looks like here

• understanding your story without shame

  • learning to feel safe in your body

• reconnecting with your needs

• releasing old survival patterns

• building emotional resilience

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Renée Willis, OCT, MS-Ed., CCP., CPT., PICP Bio-Signature

Owner and Founder of Freed And On Fire Counselling

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